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On the upswing

I promise I will catch you up on the 4 months I wasn’t writing but right now I need to talk about the upswing. The flipping of the switch, The doing better. For the first time, I am ok spending … Continue reading

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Loneliness and Time

In April of this year, I moved out of the house I had lived in for about 14 years.   I left the man that I had been with for 16 years. The best friend I ever had.  A loving … Continue reading

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Maybe an epiphany?

I spent most of this week on the couch due to what I thought was the flu and turned out to be  a really bad UTI.   I have never been so miserable in my life.  I missed 3 days of … Continue reading

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Another year older

Yesterday, I turned another year older.  I had my kids on my birthday so I decided to do something new and exciting with them.   I took them camping in a tent, for 2 nights.   It was an adventure … Continue reading

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The Universe sometimes takes control

I made a bad decision. But the Universe stepped in and saved me. I met a guy on POF a few months ago.   I have seen him 2 times in the months.    He has come over, we have … Continue reading

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I make bad decisions

I admit it.  I make bad decisions. I made another on last night.    I am sure you are asking your self, “Loveshugs, why are you knowingly making bad decision?” Well, my loves, there are many reasons why I do … Continue reading

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And in a snap, it was over.

I arrived at the courthouse last.  I walked in to see the soon-to-be  ex husband sitting with the lawyer. The lawyer rose and took me over to check in.   He then sat next to me and went over things. As … Continue reading

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Today…..

Today…. My marriage will be over.  My divorce will be finalized.  The one thing I never thought would happen will happen. My experience of being from a broken home will come in handy for my kids.  the ability to see … Continue reading

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D Day approaching

Just a couple more days and I will be officially divorced. Fuck.  I don’t want to go back. I don’t regret the decision for the marriage to end but it sucks. There are feelings of failure and defeat. There are … Continue reading

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Frustration

I went to write a post today and saw this in the drafts.  It was never finished but seems important to share. Tuesday I realized that the hearing for my dissolution was exactly one week away.   It hit me … Continue reading

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