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On the upswing
I promise I will catch you up on the 4 months I wasn’t writing but right now I need to talk about the upswing. The flipping of the switch, The doing better. For the first time, I am ok spending … Continue reading
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Loneliness and Time
In April of this year, I moved out of the house I had lived in for about 14 years. I left the man that I had been with for 16 years. The best friend I ever had. A loving … Continue reading
Maybe an epiphany?
I spent most of this week on the couch due to what I thought was the flu and turned out to be a really bad UTI. I have never been so miserable in my life. I missed 3 days of … Continue reading
Another year older
Yesterday, I turned another year older. I had my kids on my birthday so I decided to do something new and exciting with them. I took them camping in a tent, for 2 nights. It was an adventure … Continue reading
The Universe sometimes takes control
I made a bad decision. But the Universe stepped in and saved me. I met a guy on POF a few months ago. I have seen him 2 times in the months. He has come over, we have … Continue reading
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Tagged adult, bad relationships, divorce, human, life, lonely, online dating, single, toxic
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I make bad decisions
I admit it. I make bad decisions. I made another on last night. I am sure you are asking your self, “Loveshugs, why are you knowingly making bad decision?” Well, my loves, there are many reasons why I do … Continue reading
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And in a snap, it was over.
I arrived at the courthouse last. I walked in to see the soon-to-be ex husband sitting with the lawyer. The lawyer rose and took me over to check in. He then sat next to me and went over things. As … Continue reading
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Tagged depression, divorce, end, ending, human, life, marriage issues, sad, single
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Today…..
Today…. My marriage will be over. My divorce will be finalized. The one thing I never thought would happen will happen. My experience of being from a broken home will come in handy for my kids. the ability to see … Continue reading
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D Day approaching
Just a couple more days and I will be officially divorced. Fuck. I don’t want to go back. I don’t regret the decision for the marriage to end but it sucks. There are feelings of failure and defeat. There are … Continue reading
Frustration
I went to write a post today and saw this in the drafts. It was never finished but seems important to share. Tuesday I realized that the hearing for my dissolution was exactly one week away. It hit me … Continue reading